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The Sufi Concept of Fana: Why Losing Yourself Leads to Peace

There’s a strange moment that sometimes happens during prayer or deep meditation, a brief slipping away of the sense that

Maybe it happened while you were standing at the edge of the ocean, watching waves that existed long before you

You wake up, go through the motions, do the things you’re supposed to do, and somewhere in the middle of

There’s a poem by Bulleh Shah, the great Punjabi Sufi mystic, that opens with a line so simple it almost

There’s a line from Rumi that doesn’t get quoted nearly as often as “the wound is where the light enters,”

You’re sitting at the dinner table, surrounded by people who share your blood, your last name, your childhood home. And

You’ve replayed the conversation a dozen times. What they said, how it landed, how clearly they were wrong. And still,

Something good happens. A promotion. A kind message from someone you love. A moment that should feel like relief, or

You open your phone for two minutes and somehow end up spiraling. Someone from college just bought a house. Someone